I want to be successful in a job I love while maintaining close friend and family relationships. I plan on going to college to pursue a psychological degree. Outside of academic validation and deeper moral motives, gifted kid burnouts put themselves through pressure because of their end goal, usually college and a successful career path. In this article I will focus on the overall goal for burnouts and how to overcome burnout. In this series, we will cover what gifted kid burnout is and why it happens, how individuals are personally affected by gifted kid burnout, and how to (hopefully) conquer it. This is part three in a column series by Makenzie Bird on gifted kid burnout. High school (n): You will most likely forget about your friends, family and love life, and will exist for the sole purpose of reaching a 4.5 GPA and studying for the impeding SATs… the only free time you have will be spent crying and listening to sad music while reviewing notes for the 90th time to get a 78 on your AP Chemistry test. And skills in all areas need to start developing as early as high school for a good adult life. Ĭolleges want to see balanced and well-rounded students. Burnouts typically fit in “the brain” category. Ex., the athlete focuses entirely on sports and not so much on school. The movie The Breakfast Club shows the three largest stereotypes, all examples of how each individual’s values overbalance everything else in their lives. Get the context! Read part one and two of this series if you haven’t already. Because gifted students place such high values on academics, getting accepted to great colleges should be a giveaway.īut ironically, burnouts are so focused on their high school academic life that they neglect other aspects of their life needed for a healthy balance. Gifted students love maintaining the image of the “clever good kid” because of their natural academic aptitude. Some students are instinctively leaders.Īnd these individual values intertwine with the way we present ourselves. Some students are great at communicating with their peers. Some teachers see off the bat that certain students are better listeners than others. But the system of our education now has given more priority to grades than that of actual learning.An individual’s values show as early as elementary school. I understand that a little healthy competition is good to sharpen and motivate everyone to do their best. Usually, people see us as students with a superiority complex when we compete among different academic programs in school. The competitiveness of the students here also goes beyond the class. But to be honest, it is in this class that you will find the most competitive people and how that competition has put a lot at stake, even friendship and relationships of everyone in the class. These programs require intellectually-challenging entrance examinations, so passing this means a validation of your “giftedness” or “smartness”. It’s a thing here among public schools in the Philippines that these programs are like where the “cream of the crop” students enroll in. I attended “Special Science Class” and “Science, Technology, Engineering Program” in grade school and high school, respectively.
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